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Tuesday, September 15, 2020

News Trend Day Two: Potholes, Boardwalks, And Another Beach|Actual

" Let's go on a hike," said my fourth-born. "A proper hike in the Cascade Mountains."

Yes, What a grand and glorious summer bucket list idea. So we brought out the mountain hiking guide books, studied and strategized, and laid in a plan for a thoroughly challenging hike to a mountain lake.

Little did we know the complications that were about to unfold.

Read the full adventure here:

Day One: The Gulch And A Great Beach

Day Two: Potholes, Boardwalks And Another Beach

Day Three: More Potholes And A Perfect Alpine Lake

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Day Two began with plenty of promise. With our backpacks loaded, lunch packed, and big red pup ready and raring to go, we headed north out of the city and east into the Cascades.

Our sights were set onthe Ashland Lakes trail, a five-ish mile long moderately difficult climb up to three alpine lakes.

Everything was going according to plan till we turned off the Mountain Loop Highway and onto the dirt road that would deliver us, five miles later, to the trailhead.

Now, first let me say I'm rather fond of dirt roads.

In Michigan lake country, where I grew up, dirt roads were a dime a dozen and just a normal part of life. Observant child that I was, I learned all the secrets of driving on dirt roads long before I got behind the wheel

Slow down.

Stay out of the dust.

Watch out for washboards.

Beware of soft shoulders.

Use the whole road to your advantage.

Drive around rather than through pot holes.

Never, ever drive through a puddle if you can't tell how deep it is.

And so it was with great confidence that I swung a right onto a dusty ol' logging road, ready to put my experience and confidence to good use.

But I was not prepared for what came next.

Five meters beyond the end of the pavement, we were met by our first two potholes. Each easily a meter wide and half a meter deep, they sat side by side, two gargoyles cautioning us to turn back now or regret it.

Ha. I steered the car over the top of them, and laughed at them in my rear view mirror.

But they were only the first two demons to beset us. As we drove on, the potholes continued to come at us, thick and furious. Ranging in size from reasonable to outrageous, they were mostly dry, though some had a bit of water in the bottom. Still, I could easily estimate their depth and felt comfortable driving on.

It was about a mile in that I met my match.

Slowly creeping up to a tight right turn in the track, I spied a huge puddle, extending easily three or four meters long before it disappeared around the corner. It covered all of the road, from side to side, except for about a half meter of loose and fluffy sand on the left shoulder.

And, you know, if I had a couple of testosterone-fueled twenty-something young men in the car, who could have pushed my noble CRV out of whatever mess may have lurked beneath that pale muddy water, I might have considered going for it.

But my daughters and I were not up for pushing.

Nor were we up for flooded floorboards, wet engines, or heaven forbid, broken axles.

After a quick consultation, our decision was unanimous.

Hell no.

And so we decided to head back into town - Granite Falls - to pick up some cell service and plan another hike.

Such was our luck that by the time our Plan B was firmly in hand, the sun was long past the yardarm.

"It's too late," I called it. But let's come back tomorrow and make this hike happen."

Reluctantly, my daughters agreed.

But I was not about to deny us a walk in the woods. So it was back to Mukilteo (Everett, technically) and in the shadow of the largest building in the world (by volume), we hiked the lovely Narbeck Wetland Sanctuary.

Back in the 1990s, when our very own Snohomish County was looking to expand the runways at nearby Paine Field, their plans called for them to "impact," or more bluntly, pave over several wetlands on the property. To make up for that, the airport built up and set aside this lovely parcel as Washington's first so-called mitigation bank.

What that means, in simple English, is that sandwiched in between the Boeing colossus and the local county airport is a dream of a natural hideaway.

^ The main kisi-kisi loops around the perimeter of the property. Most of the 1.Tiga mile track is well maintained under a lush green canopy of young trees. Weirdly, there are two short sections of the perimeter kisi-kisi that edge out onto the city sidewalk before ducking back under cover. It's a bit jarring to step from the secluded forest into Boeing's transit center during shift change, but you know, we rolled with it.

^ Shorter but oh, so much more sweeter are the interpretive trails that crisscross through the center of the wetland. Though they're only about a half mile long, there are lovely sections of boardwalks and bridges that make my heart sing.

I love a good boardwalk.

Gracie also adores them, happily trotting ahead on her long leash and then twisting back to make sure I am still coming along. She keeps a close eye on me.

My previous dog was less impressed. For reasons we never understood, Ranger hated any sort of boardwalk, elevated walkway, or bridge. When we brought him here, he refused to participate in the stroll along the boardwalks. Solving his duduk perkara nicely, he simply hopped over the edge and walked along next to us on the boggy ground. He was such a good lad.

^ But here's something Gracie and Ranger could both agree on: swimming!

Well, I exaggerate.

What my dogs actually like to do is wade out into a body of water, the murkier and muckier, the better, and settle right down for a good drink.

Gracie brilliantly demonstrated this technique and lapped up a good half gallon before hauling her muddy self back up onto the trail.

^ I distracted myself from her swamp queen antics by admiring the flowers.

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And so our quiet interlude at Narbeck helped to take the sting out of our second round of hiking setbacks. Just to be sure we weren't suffering too much, it was decided that we make one last stop at Mukilteo Beach for a round of fish and chips and a bit of beach adventuring.

^ Thus Day Two ended with still with no mountain hike but fresh air in our lungs, food in our bellies, camera rolls full of beautiful shots, and a dog covered in a curious mixture of swamp mud and beach sand.

Not a bad day's work.

News Trend Day Three: More Potholes And A Perfect Alpine Lake|Actual

" Let's go on a hike," said my fourth-born. "A proper hike in the Cascade Mountains."

Yes, What a grand and glorious summer bucket list idea. So we brought out the mountain hiking guide books, studied and strategized, and laid in a plan for a thoroughly challenging hike to a mountain lake.

Little did we know the complications that were about to unfold.

Read the full adventure here:

Day One: The Gulch And A Great Beach

Day Two: Potholes, Boardwalks And Another Beach

Day Three: More Potholes And A Perfect Alpine Lake

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Day Three dawned cloudy and grey but surprisingly dry, so with an urgency driven by our two days of failed attempts, my two younger daughters and I set off for the mountains once again.

We were armed with a new plan. This time, our sights were set on Heather Lake: a 4.6 mile round tripper with an elevation gain just over 1000 feet.

My daughters and I love to hike but we are not hardcore hikers. What I mean by that is we love to be out in the wilderness, conquering the land with our own two feet, pushing ourselves to do something hard...But not too hard. Rather than focus every effort on crossing unstable stands of scree, scrambling across slippery stone boulders, or summiting crazy elevation gains, we prefer to use most of our bandwidth on smelling the flowers and enjoying the scenery. We have no desire to suffer, to struggle, to sweat, for heaven's sake. Hiking, in our humble collective opinion, should be enjoyable and relaxing, not a gladiator's match. And with that lovely goal in mind, we choose our hikes carefully.

Heather Lake seemed like a solid choice for us. Not too long, not too steep. Plus two of us had already made the hike and lived to survive, so we were pretty sure we had a winner.

Along we drove, retracing our steps from Day Two, and feeling a little proud of our sticktuitiveness.

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It wasn't until we pulled into the Ranger Station, gravel crunching under our tires, that we discovered our commitment would face one more test.

"So you're thinking of going to Heather Lake?" the rangers asked. Well. I heard the reservation in her voice, clear as a bell.

"That's what we were thinking. We tried Ashland Lakes yesterday but the access road was is rough shape so we gave up and turned back."

At the mention of this trip through potholedhell, my new friend visibly relaxed. "The road up to the Heather Lake trailhead is about the same," she gushed. "Have you considered Lake Twenty Two?"

Five minutes later, we were back in the car, crunching across that same gravel but this time with a new plan in mind.

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One mile down the highway, we pulled off the highway and directly into the trailhead parking for Lake Twenty Two. And thus, after three days of setbacks and recalculations, our proper mountain hike in the Cascade Mountains was finally underway.

We knew we were pushing ourselves to the edge of our hiking comfort bubble. The hike to Lake Twenty Two runs lima.4 miles round trip to the base of the lake, but the extra loop trail around the lake brought the total mileage to 6.5. Noting the elevation gain of 1350 feet, we gave thanks for the cool temperatures and set off.

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Hiking uphill, for me, feels quite a bit like natural childbirth.

There is discomfort.

There is pain.

Many small sips of water are needed.

There may be some curse words thrown around.

There is also a quiet voice within that reminds me, "There's no way out of this except to go through it, so you may as well quit complaining and get on with the job."

And then, when the goal is finally achieved, glory hallelujah! The pain and agony disappear in an instant, and suddenly, I'm immersed in pure joy.

And so it was when I arrived at Lake Twenty Two.

^ With little ado, the kisi-kisi comes to an end at a boardwalk junction. Three steps to the left led us out onto a footbridge across the northern end of the lake, wetlands behind us and the green glow of reflected forest ahead.

^ A low-hanging curtain of fog obscured much of our view across the lake, but wildflowers in the meadow and a glacier on the distant shore put in lovely appearances.

^ After a quick break for Gracie to cool off in the water, we set off on the loop trail toward the east side of the lake.

^ Just as we did, the fog hovering over the lake did a belly flop and landed right on top of us. All the beauty we had come to see was lying just beyond that ridge of low trees, but you will have to take my word for it.

^ Massive granite boulders lay strewn this way and that across the meadow, leaving me with the impression that giants had once been at play here. Or glaciers. Same difference.

^ Gracie's hiking style is to rush ahead and lead our little pack from the advantage of her (partially coiled) long leash, and then circle back to make sure she hasn't lost us. All in all, with this back and forth business, I expect she gets in about twice as many steps as we do.

^ The lake, as seen from the southern vantage point. You may be asking, "What lake? I don't see any lake." I know, right?

^ Where the east side of the lake is open meadows of tumbled boulders, the west is a wooded paradise.

^ And before we knew it, we were back where we started. After our battle up the side of the mountain, the 1.1 miles around the mostly level loop trail felt like a walk in the park.

^All that was left for us to do now was to march back down the trail. My feet had wings and Gracie's paws collected mud.

^Down through the scree fields, switchbacks, tangles of roots, steep staircases, slabs of rock, and waterfalls streaming across the kisi-kisi we traipsed until we were back on the mostly level ground from whence we came. Gracie and my daughters rushed ahead to the car, leaving me a few moments alone in the forest to contemplate my hike to Lake Twenty Two.

And just as my memories of childbirth flew away the moment I held my baby in my arms, I forgot every moment of the day's challenges.

"Sure," I said to myself, "I'd do it all over again in a heartbeat."

Monday, September 14, 2020

News Trend Perfect Imperfections|Actual

Knotted my way through another macrame project this weekend.

Plenty of cord left over from my last project.

A mostly straight stick from my maple tree that has been begging for an artful purpose.

And a big blank section of fence near my backyard patio that was ready for an upgrade.

I'm a confident knot-tier so it was with sunny optimism and big dreams that I began my project.

Looking back, everything went well. A row of Larks Head knots to anchor the cords, and then Square Knots for days, alternating between rows to create the simple but oh, so pleasing diamond pattern. And once the fringes were trimmed off, a simple Overhand Knot on each cord to keep it from fraying.

Working outside on my front porch on a pair of lovely summer days, I focused on keeping my rows straight and my knots even. Working as precisely as I possibly could, I enjoyed every zen moment of mathematical concentration and tactile repetition.

I was certain that my macrame hanging was going to be darn near perfect.

Just before dinner on Sunday, under my supervision, my husband whacked a nail into the fence post and hung my creation. I stepped back to kuesioner the finished look and I realized....

It wasn't perfect.

Not that it wasn't lovely and interesting and right up my aesthetic alley. My macrame hanging was all of those things.

But it wasn't completely, exactly, one hundred percent perfect. To be sure, there were no mistakes or obvious flaws. But my eyes saw how the natural wiggles in the branch sent ripples of imperfection through the cords, and the knots, though carefully placed, were occasionally misaligned. The fringe was meant to be a bit wonky and uneven, but in some parts, ironically, it looked too perfectly straight.

And, to be perfectly honest, those imperfections shocked me. And disappointed me.

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Over the next few hours, as my mind puzzled over this strange turn of events, I realized this is how life goes sometimes.

With our friends and families, with our partners and pets, we often try our best. We set our sights high and we have all the best intentions and we put every effort into making things happen just the way we want them to.

We plan a special meal.

We send a friendly text.

We laugh at their jokes.

We let them choose the movie.

We listen.

We try to show that we care.

And many times, maybe even most of the time, we come pretty dang close to getting things right.

But there are times when we look back at our efforts and the voices in our head tell us that we have fallen short.

Or even worse, someone else looks at our efforts and implies, or maybe even tells us straight up that we have fallen short.

But those voices, the voices of hyper-criticism and excessive judgment, are wrong. People are never perfect, and what matters most is that we try. This is no gooey, participation-trophy sentiment but a legitimate argument that the mercy and kindness that we often extend to other people should be applied to ourselves as well.

And if the people around us don't see our efforts and appreciate what we do right instead of calling us out for what we do that is not wrong but merely less than perfect, well, maybe that says more about them than it does about us.

Now when I walk past my macrame hanging, my eyes still leap right to the places that I consider imperfections. But instead of feeling shocked or disappointed, I smile and thank them for what they've taught me. That they were never imperfections at all.

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More macrame projects to make your dreams come true:

Fulfilled

Sugar, Sugar

A Macrame Home For My Spider Plant Family

Macrame Magic

Perfect Imperfections

Roses And Ivy

News Trend Cuban Economics|Actual

The Cuban economy is strictly controlled by the government. Until recently, shopkeepers were either government-run or decidedly under the radar. However, change is in the air. Limited numbers of officially sanctioned small business have opened up and my Saturday morning shopping trip clearly illustrated this evolution in three parts:

Act I: The Government Agromercado

If you want limes, artichokes, bananas or a few odds and ends of other produce, you're in luck at this tiny tent of a farmers'market.

If you're looking for anything else, be on your way.

We picked up a few pounds of bananas, weighed them out on an ancient rusty scale, paid for them in a handful of pesos, and headed off.

Act II: The Fishmonger's Freezer

You would think there would be fresh fish aplenty in this island nation but that is not the case. Better to step into the shadows of this under-the-radar private residence and peer into the depths of a mostly empty freezer to choose your catch of the day.

And shhh. Don't tell the Castro brothers. Because this is definitely an unofficial exchange.

Act III: Private-Sector Produce

I felt quite at home in this well-stocked, crisply-managed, officially sanctioned privately-owned stand. Neat bins were stacked full of eggplant, papaya, watermelons, squash, onions and other covetable vegetables; workers were attentive and helpful; and shoppers are buying in spades.

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In case the message is not clear, let me be blunt. The Cuban government has failed its people. Private sector growth is the best avenue for improving the common people's way of life. Capitalism for the win.

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Check out more stories about my once-in-a-lifetime trip to Cuba and my wonderful friends who lived there:

I Will Bake You A Pie

Cuban Makan

Cuban Economics

El Malecon Cloudburst

A La Playa

Creepy Cuban Kudzu

Plaza De La Revolucion

Old Havana

Poolside in Havana

A Cuban Sunset Story

Sunset Chasers, Cuban Edition

The Puppy At The Castle

Old Havana On The Eve Of Fidel's Birthday

An ASEAN Celebration

Nayli's Bedroom

Varadero, Cuba

Winding Down

Dear Cuba

Aqil's Chicken

The Gentle Art Of Reframing

My Cuban Home

Tickled Pink

Full Circle

Chicken Drumsticks

News Trend Reading Natalie Babbitt|Actual

The Search For Delicious by Natalie Babbitt

A young mermaid's heart breaks when her favorite doll is inexplicably locked up in her underwater playhouse. Centuries later, a king sends a twelve-year-old boy out to survey his kingdom in search of the perfect description of the word 'delicious.' These two story lines weave together to build the beautiful tapestry of a surprising and charming story

Kneeknock Rise by Natalie Babbitt

Folks from far and wide are both thrilled by and terrified of the mysterious and menacing life force that lives on top of Kneeknock Rise. When a young boy finds the courage to hike to the mountaintop and learns the truth, he's not sure what to do with this new information. A poignant tale about the human need for mystery.

Goody Hall by Natalie Babbit

A young man seizes an opportunity to tutor the son of a wealthy family that lives in a remarkable mansion called Goody Hall. He meets a charming cast of characters who fill in bits and pieces of the family history, and what he learns is that money cannot buy happiness. The house takes on a personality of its own and what happens to it in the end is shocking.

Natalie Babbitt has a way of knitting together stories with the comfortable, soft familiarity of a classic fairy tale, as seen through fresh and imaginative eyes. As I read, I keep nudging up against a familiar place in my mind, as if this was a story once told to me as a tiny child, sitting on my grandmother's lap.

Little bits and pieces of the tale are at once fondly familiar but just beyond my memory's reach, like an emotion on the tip of my tongue that I can't quite name until the words unfold and I see it there in black and white. Each novel stirs up in me the same delight for whimsical people and places that exist out of our time, where incredible things happen that just might be true.

You never know.

For a long time, I thought this power came from Babbitt's prowess as a writer, in her ability to weave a wonderful story. But now I'm quite sure that the magic is Babbitt herself/

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If you'd like to read my reviews of my favorite Natalie Babbitt book of all time, go here:

2012.

2019

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Read more about what I've been reading:

Reading Afternoons

Reading Mornings

Reading Children's Books

Reading Memories

Reading Recommendations

Reading Inspiration

Reading Insights

Reading At The Pool

Reading About The Desert

Reading On Repeat

Reading Natalie Babbitt

Reading The Truth

Reading Books That Are Blue

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Read more about what I've been reading:

Reading Afternoons

Reading Mornings

Reading Children's Books

Reading Memories

Reading Recommendations

Reading Inspiration

Reading Insights

Reading At The Pool

Reading About The Desert

Reading On Repeat

Reading Natalie Babbit

Reading The Truth

Reading Books That Are Blue

Reading Mysteries

Reading About Walking

Sunday, September 13, 2020

News Trend Cuban Makan|Actual

Dinner preparations have already begun and I can't wait to taste it.

My body may be visiting Cuba but my stomach is experiencing pure Malaysia.

Nasi Ayam

Nasi Lemak

Pisang Goreng

Such a treat to enjoy these familiar Southeast Asian flavors here in the Caribbean, and I'm thankful for every meal that my lovely hostess prepares for me.

It's no easy task to track down all the necessary ingredients. Spices and sauces were trekked across the globe from Malaysia; fresh meats and vegetables must be hunted down from sparse Cuban agromercados. On my first shopping trip yesterday, it became abundantly clear to me that one does not plan out a dish and then shop for the ingredients; it's more a matter of buying whatever you can find and then figuring out what you can make from it. Menu plans are nothing but a big question mark

But I have great faith in my hostess to pull together another delicious Malay meal. Right now, the only question on my mind is what's for dinner?

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Check out more stories about my once-in-a-lifetime trip to Cuba and my wonderful friends who lived there:

I Will Bake You A Pie

Cuban Makan

Cuban Economics

El Malecon Cloudburst

A La Playa

Creepy Cuban Kudzu

Plaza De La Revolucion

Old Havana

Poolside in Havana

A Cuban Sunset Story

Sunset Chasers, Cuban Edition

The Puppy At The Castle

Old Havana On The Eve Of Fidel's Birthday

An ASEAN Celebration

Nayli's Bedroom

Varadero, Cuba

Winding Down

Dear Cuba

Aqil's Chicken

The Gentle Art Of Reframing

My Cuban Home

Tickled Pink

Full Circle

Chicken Drumsticks

News Trend We Can Make It Happen|Actual

This is me on the far left at about age welve.

I'd just hopped out of the lake for a birthday party which explains my soaking wet hair and shirt.

I was also busy in those days learning how to think for myself.

There's no denying that the 2020 election cycle is heating up.

Candidates have surfaced,

town halls are happening left and right,

and the Iowa caucuses are coming up fast.

Which puts me in a reflective state of mind.

It's no secret what I think of our current president. Ever since he declared his candidacy in 2015, I have boldly declared my outrage at everything he stands for, and I object to his leadership on every level.

And I know my voice has turned off some people in my life.

You know what? I'm okay with that. In fact, it only makes me want to speak louder.

Because I believe, more than anything else about politics, that we the people have not just a right but a responsibility to speak our minds, to ring out the truth as we know it, to declare to everyone who is within earshot exactly who we are and what we stand for.

Because that, my friends, that willingness to stand up and speak out is where real change begins.

And sometimes, I think about that imperative to speak out, so deeply wired into my head and heart, so penting to my understanding of what it means to be an American, and I wonder where it came from.

Certainly not my mom, who held strong opinions but also believed in keeping her head down and not rocking the boat.

Nor my many teachers and professors, who - each and every one - failed to connect for me the dots between learning about the past and acting in the moment to influence the future.

Nor did the vast majority of my other adult influencers and generational peers - friends, colleagues, family - stir up their own passions for social justice or encourage me to do the same through their example.

No, I've lived in a world where good people say nothing about the outrage in the world around us.

Except for one strong and stirring influence; a voice - melodic and mature far beyond my tender years - that spoke to me in tones as clear as a bell.

When I was eleven years old, by the decibels blasting out from my older brother's basement bedroom that literally rocked the rafters of our house, I was introduced to the band, Chicago. And while my first interests may have been the power chords opening 25 or 6 to 4, or the horn solos in Make Me Smile, my attention soon turned to the deeper, more resonant messages of the music.

My heart for political action was stirred up by any number of songs on their first few albums, but it was this song, released on Chicago V when I was thirteen years old, that changed my life forever.

So be forewarned. As the election cycle spins forward, I will be speaking up loud and clear for what I believe, for the change toward civility and compassion that our country so desperately needs. And I hope you will do the same.

Because together, we can make it happen.

Dialogue Part I & II

By Robert Lamm

Are you optimistic 'bout the way things are going?

No, I never ever think of it at all

Don't you ever worry when you see what's going down?

Well, I try to mind my business, that is, no business at all

When it's time to function as a feeling human being

Will your bachelor of arts help you get by?

I hope to study further, a few more years or so

I also hope to keep a steady high

Will you try to change things

Use the power that you have, the power of a million new ideas?

What is this power you speak of and the need for things to change?

I always thought that everything was fine

Don't you feel repression just closing in around?

No, the campus here is very, very free

Don't it make you angry the way war is dragging on?

Well, I hope the president knows what he's into, I don't know

Don't you see starvation in the city where you live

All the needless hunger, all the needless pain?

I haven't been there lately, the country is so fine

My neighbors don't seem hungry 'cause they haven't got the time

Thank you for the talk, you know you really eased my mind

I was troubled by the shapes of things to come

Well, if you had my outlook your feelings would be numb

You'd always think that everything was fine

We can make it better

We can make it better

We can make it better

Yeah Yeah Yeah

We can change the world now

We can change the world now

We can change the world now

We can save the children

We can save the children

We can save the children

Yeah Yeah Yeah

We can make it happen

We can make it happen

We can make it happen