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Thursday, November 5, 2020

News Trend Road Trip Day 3: Seward, NE To Peru, IL|Actual

Off we go on another all-American family road trip.

Two parents

Two daughters

A big red dog

And a car full of suitcases, leashes, a cooler, bags of food, blankets, pillows, maps, books, extra sweatshirts, water bottles, bags, backpacks, and a whole slew of electronic devices and their chargers.

Where are we going and what will we do when we get there? Just wait and see.

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Iowa is a poem of a place. Like a handmade quilt on a rumpled bed, her softly undulating hills and valleys invite me to cozy up and stay awhile. Trim houses sit watch over luxuriant corn and soybean fields in the peak of their summer glory, deer and rabbits roam freely. Anyone who tries to tell you that Iowa is a bore has clearly not taken the time to get to know her.

After two days of hardcore cross-country driving, we found ourselves way ahead on miles and treated ourselves to several hours off the interstate grid. Exploring small towns on gravel roads, we rode with the windows down and our cameras at the ready. Madison County's famed covered bridges captured our imaginations; we toured four of the six old relics and learned that Ranger will NOT set foot inside of one, though he will happily swim in the waters below.

Distance covered today: 458 miles

Total trip so far: 2132 miles

Wednesday, November 4, 2020

News Trend Road Trip Day 9: Elyria, OH To Howell, MI|Actual

Off we go on another all-American family road trip.

Two parents

Two daughters

A big red dog

And a car full of suitcases, leashes, a cooler, bags of food, blankets, pillows, maps, books, extra sweatshirts, water bottles, bags, backpacks, and a whole slew of electronic devices and their chargers.

Where are we going and what will we do when we get there? Just wait and see.

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Our weekend of celebration ended and my two older daughters flown back home, it's now time for our road trip to get back underway. Reversing our long eastward progression, we circled the wagons to face the west and began the long trip home.

On our way out of town, our little party of four stopped for lunch at Elyria's premier burger joint and feasted on Oh Boycheeseburgers, visited my late father-in-law's shop, and wandered down country roads to seek out the old Streicher family farm.

The house disappeared decades ago and the old barn is in disarray. But the fields stretch out under the golden summer sun just as they always have, and it didn't take much imagination to see George Henry and his sons out baling up the fresh crop of hay.

The past is gone, it's true.  But if we look carefully, it is always within our reach.

Distance covered today: 173 miles

Total trip so far: 2722 miles

News Trend Road Trip Day 7: Elyria, OH|Actual

Off we go on another all-American family road trip.

Two parents

Two daughters

A big red dog

And a car full of suitcases, leashes, a cooler, bags of food, blankets, pillows, maps, books, extra sweatshirts, water bottles, bags, backpacks, and a whole slew of electronic devices and their chargers.

Where are we going and what will we do when we get there? Keep reading!

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Today we celebrated the life of June Elaine Squire Streicher, a styling young lady who was also a daughter, wife, mother, grandmother and my sweet mother-in-law. She is the reason we traveled all the miles on this road trip and I am thankful to be here, in the small Ohio town where she lived her long, lovely life.

During the thirty-three years we shared, June showed nothing but respect and appreciation for the way I lived my life. She never offered advice, disapproved of me, or told me what to do. But through her wordless example, my mother-in-law reminded me over and over again about what matters in life, and her gentle, positive influence with be with me always.

Work hard, be neat, and clean as you go.

Don't take yourself too seriously.

Put a home-cooked meal on the table for your family every day.

Stand by your man.

If you don't have something nice to say, don't say anything at all.

Live frugally, but treat yourself to the occasional treasure.

Manners matter. Be polite

Never say no to an opportunity for travel

Make the best of whatever you're given.

Bake lots of pie.

Worship, pray, read your bible, and thank God for all things.

Distance covered today: 15 miles

Total trip so far: 2549 miles

News Trend Road Trip Day 11: Howell, MI to Albert Lee, MN|Actual

Off we go on another all-American family road trip.

Two parents

Two daughters

A big red dog

And a car full of suitcases, leashes, a cooler, bags of food, blankets, pillows, maps, books, extra sweatshirts, water bottles, bags, backpacks, and a whole slew of electronic devices and their chargers.

Where are we going and what will we do when we get there? Just wait and see.

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Michigan

Indiana

Illinois

Wisconsin

Minnesota

We're heading west with abandon now, picking up momentum as we dash through the Great Hardwood Forest, over the mighty Mississippi, and out into the open prairie.

Some prime sightseeing lies in store for the final leg of the trip, but our primary purposes have been accomplished. We laid my mother-in law to rest, and spent several days catching up with my mom, whose Lewy Body Dementia continues its ugly advance.

And as today's sun sank down into a fiery glow on the windswept horizon, I found myself wondering, which is more difficult - to bid farewell to the earthly presence of one mother or to walk out the door and leave behind the failing, tortured mind of the other?

I don't know. Both are pretty heartbreaking.

All I can be sure of is this: my faith is the only thing that is keeping me going.

My faith tells me that no matter how chaotic this world may feel, God is always, ALWAYS in control

My faith reminds me that the separation between this life and the next is but a veil.

My faith promises me that God loves each and every life with equal value and tenderly holds us all.

My faith helps me control myself when all I want to do is sit down and cry for a million years.

My faith calms my troubled heart.

And for all those things, I am grateful.

Distance covered today: 661 miles

Total miles so far: 3383 miles

Tuesday, November 3, 2020

News Trend Road Trip Day 10: Howell, MI|Actual

Off we go on another all-American family road trip.

Two parents

Two daughters

A big red dog

And a car full of suitcases, leashes, a cooler, bags of food, blankets, pillows, maps, books, extra sweatshirts, water bottles, bags, backpacks, and a whole slew of electronic devices and their chargers.

Where are we going and what will we do when we get there? Just wait and see.

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Well. There are few things as precious, rewarding, and downright soul-satisfying as bringing a smile to another person's face.

And when that person happens to be your own mother, who suffers from advanced Leey Body Dementia, the joys are that much sweeter.

So imagine the fun I am having by sharing my good boy, Ranger, with my dog-loving mother.

He leans into her lap for ear rubs.

She beams with happiness as she pets him.

He naps at the side of her wheelchair, his hips tucked under her feet.

She laughs with delight as he exuberantly laps at his water dish.

And while I am usually a stern stickler for doggy discipline, I must admit that my normal rules have been outrageously relaxed.

She slips him human food right and left: half a grilled cheese and turkey sandwich, a handful of potato chips, four French fries.

He brazenly climbs up on her previously forbidden couch and enthrones himself like a prince.

What can I say. The time that the three of us can share together is far too short, so why not wring out every moment of happiness. I'll deal with my dog's new naughty habits later, but for now, the smiles on Mom's face make it all worthwhile.

Distance covered today: 0 miles

Total trip so far: 2722 miles

News Trend Road Trip Day 12: Albert Lee, MN To Keystone, SD|Actual

Off we go on another all-American family road trip.

Two parents

Two daughters

A big red dog

And a car full of suitcases, leashes, a cooler, bags of food, blankets, pillows, maps, books, extra sweatshirts, water bottles, bags, backpacks, and a whole slew of electronic devices and their chargers.

Where are we going and what will we do when we get there? Just wait and see.

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Rolling from east to west across the great American heartland, our sightseeing adventures today paint a clear picture of how the landscape has changed

The Corn Palace in Mitchell, South Dakota is an homage to the crop that makes the Midwest tick. Corn, corn, and more corn, woven into intricately designed and annually recreated mosaics decorate the exterior of this big ol' barn of a building. It is literally one of the corniest sights I have ever seen and best admired ironically.

My heart always beats faster when the Badlands come into view. These peaks, gullies, buttes and bits of prairie speak to the wild forces of nature that have dramatically shaped the American west, and though this scenery has captured my imagination during previous interstate drive-boys, today's up-close-and-personal adventure satisfied my soul.

Deep in the Black Hills, a land sacred to Native Americans and exploited by early Americans, lies a monument to our nation's forefathers and an artistic and engineering marvel. Mount Rushmore stirs up deep emotions in me, and inspires me to be a better person. Plus they sell ice cream here based on my presidential man-crush, Thomas Jefferson's original recipe. Yum.

Distance covered today: 534 miles

Total trip so far: 3917 miles

News Trend The Last Day Of My Summer Vacation|Actual

Tick.

Tick.

Tick tick.

Tickticktickticktick.

This past weekend, the last days of my summer break were winding down rapidly, and I was bound and determined to make the best of every minute. So what to do with my dwindling hours of freedom?

Weed the garden?

Paint the back steps?

Tackle one last spray painting project?

Yeah. Did all that on Saturday.

Which left me exactly one last precious day of freedom. Which I decided to spend at my favorite summer place on this earth.

Kalaloch.

This wild Washington beach has been our family's favorite camping spot for decades. But we had no time for cook stoves and camp sites at this late date. So bright and early on Sunday morning, my three younger daughters and I embarked on a highly unorthodox day trip to the coast.

Oh. And Ranger came too.

And here is the story of our long, lovely day at the beach.

^ After a six a.m. wake-up call and a four-hour drive, our first moments on the beach were a dream. The clouds parted, the sun shone with abandon, the tide ebbed, and a flock of gulls stepped up to greet us. Out came the cameras to capture the moment.

True, we were wearing multiple layers of fleece, but in the Pacific Northwest, these are the makings of a perfect summer day.

^ A peek-a-boo view from the campground revealed a long line of clean, white breakers between me and the infinite blue.

^ This beach trail overflows with memories from the days when my girls pretended that the paths around the campground were Mario Kart tracks. This one always puts me in the mind of Rainbow Road and I see myself careening over the edge into the murky depths below.

^ Ranger and me at the edge of the mighty blue Pacific.

^ Where Kalaloch Creek enters the Pacific is a place of freshwater magic that we call the lagoon. Gnarled and bleached beach logs decorate the landscape like climbing structures, the flat stones alow for fantastic skipping, and all of us - Ranger included - consider this an ideal playground.

^ I do not understand everything that my daughters do. I have also learned to stop asking questions.

^ Ranger, on the other hand, exhibits highly predictable and self-explanatory beach behavior.

Sniff.

Sniff.

Sniffsniffsnifffffff.

(Runs along the lengths of the logs with his nose skimming the sand, drinking in delicious if invisible scents.)

Screeeeech.

Sssssss.

(Stops abruptly. Lifts leg and liberally marks his territory.)

(Repeat endlessly.)

^ As the sun arced from its morning hiding place among the trees over the campground, to high above the water during the long afternoon, the sunlight played against the ocean in a variety of angles and intensities. Capturing each subtle difference became my obsession, and I've got the camera roll to prove it.

^ This suspended tree offers a living cross section of itself and, along with the tiny freshwater stream that trickles out from underneath, presents an irresistible place to explore. My daughters still find themselves drawn to this imaginary "cave" of their youth, though Ranger has always regarded the closed-in space with trepidation. He is not a fan.

^ A long hike down to the north end of the beach at low tide rewards us with a rare opportunity to adventure among some rocks that are typically surrounded by water.

^ After exploring around the main bulwark, Daughter Number Three decided the only way to go was up. Numbers Two and Four soon followed, all climbing monkey-style up the steep incline to the top. As usual, Ranger would have no part of such foolishness, so he and I stayed safe on the sand.

^ Well. Ranger took it upon himself to wade while we waited for the rock climbers. But still, that sand was solid beneath his furry feet, just how he likes it.

^ The sun drifted down the sky as we walked back to our base camp in the sand.

^ Where freshwater streams cross the beach to join the ocean, these sharp-edged sandy min-cliffs form and present an irresistible invitation for someone to sully their top edge. Each footstep crumbles the fragile border and causes both a load of sand and the offending foot to crash down to the lower level of the stream. This too is an age-old game for my family, though this is the first time that Ranger has joined in on the action.

^ A girl and her dog, walking back. We found our outbound footprints in the damp sand, and all took turns trying to walk backwards in our opposite-direction steps.

^ Settled back at our spot, we conferred with our timepieces and concluded that our time was just about up. The girls requested a few last minutes to hop in the waves; Ranger and I sat back to drink in the last wind-blown moments of peace.

^ Sadly, there was no rest for poor Ranger, who smelled the impending change in the air. So keen to our habits is he that he sat on pins and needles through these final moments, knowing that something was about to happen.

^ Which, of course, it did. Shortly, we gathered up heaping armfuls of towels, books, snacks, jackets and shoes, and slowly, contentedly made our way back to the car and the long ride home.

^ Making our way up and away, I turned around, as I always do, for one last look.

Goodbye Kalaloch! I promise we'll be back soon.

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My family and I go to Kalaloch a lot. Here are stories from our trips over the years:

2019

Wide Open Spaces

Whale Bones

Ways To Play

The World Of Packet Dinners

Windows

2018

Walking On Rialto Beach

2017

Gracie Goes To Kalaloch

2015

The Last Day Of My Summer Vacation

2014

With Joy And Wild Abandon

With Hope And Desperate Longing

With Peace And New Beginnings

2012

It's All About The Food

It's All About Playing On The Beach

It's All About The Sunsets

It's All About The Artistic Inspiration

It's All About The Memories

2011

Discovering Tide Pools

Discovering Sunsets

2010

Balanced Rocks

sometime before 2010

Golden Pup

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More stories about beach hikes? Here you go:

With Peace And New Beginnings

Heidi And I Go For A Walk

We Both Like Whidbey

The Last Day Of My Summer Vacation

Walking On Rialto Beach

Double Bluff Beach

Hiking At The Beach