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Monday, November 23, 2020

News Trend Spoilers|Actual

For Christmas that year, my mom bought me the book version. I treasured it and still

have it to this very day, even though my dog, Casey, did take a big ol' chomp out of the corner.

What can I say, he was a chewer.

Back in the fall of 1965, I went with my neighbor, Vickie Terry, to see Mary Poppins in the theater.

I was six years old.

This wasn't the first time I'd been to a movie - I'd seen One Hundred and One Dalmatians in a proper theater when I was three, though my mom reports that I spent most of the movie asking her to take me for a drink of water, and then enjoying the long, slow climb up the wide, carpeted stairway at the majestic old Michigan Theater rather than getting the wits scared out of me as Cruella de Vil attempted to kill puppies. I'd also been to the drive-in once or twice, though that mostly consisted of wrestling my brothers for the bag of homemade popcorn and struggling to see the movie out the front window of the car.

But this was the first time I'd been invited to a movie by a friend.

Oh, those the double halaman color illustrations! Can't you just imagine the blast of wind that would send these nannies gusting off into the skies over London?

And it was the first time I'd been to see Mary Poppins.

Now back in those days, in small town America, popular movies blew in and out of town like the wind. A successful original run might last a month or two, then maybe six months later, that movie would pop back up again for a second run, and play for another few weeks. Immensely popular movies, like Gone With The Wind or Fantasia, returned year in and year out.

By the time I saw it, Mary Poppins was on her third run.

Now, I had never seen the movie before, but boy, oh boy, had I heard about it.

I'd watched countless previews and teasers on the weekly Walt Disney's Wonderful World of Color TV show.

We'd been singing the songs from the movie in my music class at school for months.

But more than anything else, my friends had told me all about it.

Yes, many of my lucky schoolmates had caught a first or second run showing of this wildly popular movie, and countless recesses and lunch hours been devoted to their recounting endless details of the show. I'd heard about the talking parrot on the umbrella handle, the toys flying around the nursery, the sidewalk paintings at the park, and the carousel horses galloping off the merry-go-round and cavorting off into the countryside.

Supercalifragilisticexpialidocious.

What a perfect word for second graders to use in nearly every situation. And we did.

My best friend, Marilyn, had also seen the movie. She introduced to the Banks' parents' peculiarities - what's a suffragette, anyway? - and puzzled with me over Mary's relationship with the kooky chimney sweep and rooftop dancer, Bert. Was he her boyfriend? Her husband? Her brother? And what about the mean men at the bank who end up laughing so hard that the oldest one dies? Could that actually happen to a person?

Suffice it to say, by the time I sat down in my red velvet seat with Vickie and her mom, I was completely familiar with the story that was finally about to unfold in front of my eyes. I enjoyed every minute even as I anticipated every plot twist and knew exactly how the movie would end.

In today's vernacular, my Mary Poppins movie-going experience had been utterly and completely spoiled.

But with the basics under my belt before the movie began, my six-year-old mind was able to wrap itself around every magical lebih jelasnya and colorful character I saw. Rather than feeling confused or overwhelmed, I loved every single minute of the show.

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This weekend, as the highly anticipated Avengers: Endgame and Game Of Thrones' The Long Night episode both hit screens for the first time, there has been a lot of chatter online about spoilers.

To sum up the conundrum, when it comes to spoilers, there are two kinds of people: those who watch new releases right away and want to talk about what they've seen, and those who expect the world to maintain radio silence till they get a chance to watch.

Honestly, I don't get the fuss about spoilers. Most storytelling is fairly predictable - The Sixth Sense, Inception, and several episodes of Star Trek: The Next Generation notwithstanding - and it doesn't take a crystal ball to predict that the Avengers are going to use time travel to prevent Thanos from accumulating the Infinity Stones and thereby killing half the population of the universe, including many Avengers. Some way or another, the good guys will ultimately kill the bad guy, rewrite time, and bring all the dead folks back to life. I expect most of the Avengers to recover, except for a few whose actors' contracts were not renegotiated.

Similarly, anyone who's been with Game of Thrones can safely assume that most of our heroes - Jon and Dany, for sure - are likely to survive the culminating battle against the Army of the Dead and one way or another, take the next step on the way to the Iron Throne. And since killing the Night King means certain death for the entire army, it seems logical to aim for his jugular. Sure, there are many secondary details to be resolved and Lord knows the GOT writers love to upset expectations and knock off important characters. But harming either Jon or Dany would be like killing Frodo and Sam on their way back from Mordor to the Shire, and it's a safe bet that's not happening.

To be perfectly honest, I am fine knowing the key plot points of a movie that I'm about to watch. With those hand holds in place, I can better appreciate the richness of the characters, the details of the setting, the subtleties of the actors' performances. A movie takes on more texture and dimension, and I can more deeply enjoy every aspect of the artistic creation.

Just like that time I saw Mary Poppins.

Sunday, November 22, 2020

News Trend Luna And Gracie|Actual

When Gracie first came into our lives, she tormented our poor cats. Though they were polite and reserved around her, the big red shaggy newcomer had no qualms about chasing them with wild abandon, barking at the top of her lungs and gleefully tracking them to whatever hiding place they could find in a hurry.

This dog was a bit of a menace to our poor cats.

But. Times have changed.

Within a few months of her arrival, Gracie dialed her responses back from frantic to playful, and the cats learned to stand up to her. Never once did they scratch or hiss at her, but their feline brains soon computed that if they didn't run away, Gracie didn't chase them.

We achieved d?Tente.

And now, we have this.

Nose kisses.

Between cat and dog.

No more dust-ups between these two supposedly natural enemies. Cats and dog have learned to love one another, and peace reigns in our home.

Oh, what the world could be if we only learned to live like Luna and Gracie.

News Trend Truffle Hunter|Actual

It's a well-known fact that pigs have an extraordinary nose for locating and rooting out the coveted fungi known as truffles. So in our family, a truffle-hunter is a white-gloved euphemism for, ahem, a pig.

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As I prepared to leave the house this morning, I did all the normal things that people do as they prepare to go out for the day.

I grabbed a quick breakfast,

gathered up my keys and purse,

and Gracie-proofed the house.

I stashed the half-full compost bin behind a cabinet door; she can and does lift the bin out of its normal place in the extra-deep kitchen sink and carry it off to the family room floor where she dumps it out and sorts through the pistachio shells, lettuce cores, and other delicious treasures.

I scrubbed out the delicious oils someone left behind in a pan after preparing their breakfast; she is entirely capable of jumping up with front feet on the counter, scooching her back feet up close to the cabinets, stretching her elegant neck deep down into the sink, and nimbly licking out every tidbit.

I rinsed out a mostly empty bottle of ketchup abandoned in the sink; no doubt my girl would haul that bottle off and work it over on the family room floor, leaving tiny splashes of red in a five foot radius.

And of course, I lifted the cats' food bowls from their eating spot on the laundry room counter, which she can easily reach, and tucked them safely on a high shelf.

This is all completely normal, right?

Then, feeling reasonably confident that I had anticipated and eliminated Gracie's every hope of finding a snack while she was home alone, I kissed her on the head and walked out the door.

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Three hours later, my third-born and I came home to this little surprise:

Lying upside down under the couch, a good fifteen feet away from the kitchen counter, we found a family-size plastic storage box full of homemade oatmeal cookies.

With craisins and chocolate chips.

Apparently, I overlooked the box during my inspection, and left it sitting out on the counter while my truffle-hunting missy was home alone.

And thank the Lord that the seal held, because there were at least twenty-five cookies inside. Had Gracie managed to pry the lid off - and I have no doubt that she tried her darnedest - she would have scored herself quite a scrumptious feast.

After yesterday's Skittle party, this would have been two huge back-to-back scores for my sweet-toothed sneak.

But alas, today, Gracie had to settle for kibble.

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To read the full story of Gracie's Skittle score, go here.

News Trend Just Another Day|Actual

Today, Gracie ate two-thirds of a full-size bag of Skittles.

She also

got her tail fringe sucked up in the vacuum cleaner,

laid out in the sun near the front sidewalk while I gardened and  politely greeted several passersby,

and hunted down four squirrels on her walk.

Apparently, she did not get a stomach ache from all the candy.

Just another day in the life of my wild Irish lass.

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To read about how Gracie's sweet tooth got her into trouble the next day, go here.

Saturday, November 21, 2020

News Trend Balanced Rocks|Actual

"There's a fine balance between preparation and seeing what happens naturally."

-Timothee Chamalet

Rock balancing is the fine art of naturally balancing rocks upon each other without any adhesive or construction devices to keep them in place.

The process strikes some people as free form art, others as a meditative journey. And there's also a camp who consider balanced rocks to be a blight on nature, an unholy disturbance of an otherwise wild landscape, a straight pain in the neck.

I can understand all three points of view.

But back in the summer of 2010, when my family and I encountered an explosion of these striking creations on the beach of Kalaloch, I was entirely charmed. Here are my photos - along with the original captions - of the balanced rocks we saw on that trip.

^ I went on my annual camping trip to Kalaloch Beach, on the coast of the Pacific Ocean. It's a lovely wild place...Probably my favorite place on earth.

But this year, when I got to the beach I found these...Rock towers. Someone...Or several someones...Had built them here and there, all over the beach. I found them fascinating.

^ The biggest stones you see here are bigger than my hand...The tiny ones are like a small coin. Look at how they are tucked into the little hiding places on this beach log. So cool.

^ Someone spent a LOT of time making all these. I built some myself and it is not so easy.

^ These are the tallest ones I found. So great!

^ Top view, looking down. I feel like a giant looking down on a forest of stone trees.

^ We built these.

^ Ranger had to be very careful not to knock them over with his leash.

^ I wasn't the only one taking pics of them. Seemed like every person who walked by with a camera stopped to capture them too.

^ When Ranger took his nap, we built a tiny tower on his head.

^ Wet, sandy., tired, happy dog.

^ This one was my favorite. I loved how the big stone is balanced on the tip of this log. I took so many pics of it!

^ See what I mean?

^ Beneath my favorite tower lies this cluster of mini towers, tucked into the crevice of this tree.

^ Aren't they so cute??

I took way more pics of these than I posted to this album. Aren't you glad I edited??!!

^ I am harnessing the power of the sun.

^ Fully loaded.

^ Ranger and me.

^ 'The cool air off the Pacific fills the beach with mist.

^ Again with the towers!

^ Sun sinking lower, sliding behind the clouds along the horizon.

Gone!

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My family and I go to Kalaloch a lot. Here are stories from our trips over the years:

2019

Wide Open Spaces

Whale Bones

Ways To Play

The World Of Packet Dinners

Windows

2018

Walking On Rialto Beach

2017

Gracie Goes To Kalaloch

2015

The Last Day Of My Summer Vacation

2014

With Joy And Wild Abandon

With Hope And Desperate Longing

With Peace And New Beginnings

2012

It's All About The Food

It's All About Playing On The Beach

It's All About The Sunsets

It's All About The Artistic Inspiration

It's All About The Memories

2011

Discovering Tide Pools

Discovering Sunsets

2010

Balanced Rocks

sometime before 2010

Golden Pup

News Trend My Shopping Ban Rules|Actual

I may buy groceries from time to time at Target.

But for the next year, I vow to keep these bulls-eye bags at bay.

Five years ago in Canada, a random blogger named Cait Flanders decided to triple-dog-dare her over-shopped self to a year-long shopping ban. Then she wrote a fascinating book about her experience, which eventually found its way to me. And now I find myself driven to join her journey.

We truly are ripples in a pond, people. We affect each others' lives.

Although my overall goal for this project is mostly the same as Cait's - to experience the joy and freedom of buying only what I truly need - my list of essentials looks a bit different from hers:

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What I am allowed to shop for:

Groceries.

Full permission to buy what I need but only if  1) I stay within my daily budget of $45 and 2) I use everything up before it spoils. I'm looking at you, refrigerator vegetable drawer.

Household supplies.

I enjoy running a well-stocked home, and that covers a lot of ground:

Picture hangers and Command strips.

Parchment paper and cupcake liners.

Vinegar, bleach, and ammonia.

Printer paper and envelopes

Every size of Sharpie imaginable.

I give myself permission to buy these things but only as needed. No stockpiling.

Wardrobe.

By no stretch of the imagination could I be considered a wardrobe shopaholic. When it comes to clothes, shoes, and accessories, I tend to lean into a very few favorites until they are so worn and tired that my daughters literally beg me to buy something new.

This past month, I've been pushing myself to get rid of worn-out clothes and fill in the holes with new, well-considered purchases. For my summer wardrobe, I'm still looking for:

dua-3 short dresses

1 long dress

1-2 print pants

1 handbag

dua-3 yoga shorts

a pair of jeans

I give myself permission to buy these things, and a short list of winter must-haves to be determined later. But only when I find exactly what I want.

Personal Care.

This is not a duduk perkara area for me. As much as I love to stand in Target and smell all the body lotions, I usually only buy what I need. Full permission granted for replacing toiletries, cosmetics, and first aid supplies, as well as monthly pedicures (foot health matters) and twice-yearly trips to the hair salon.

Housewares.

End tables

Lamps

Plants and pots

Dishes

Candles and oils

I'm cutting back hard in this category. I can keep myself busy for at least a year by simply rearranging what I already have, and if I'm totally bored, I give myself permission to shop at thrift stores.

I also give myself permission to buy some much-needed new sheets and towels, and two new desk chairs for our office.

Home Improvement.

A handful of big-ticket items are still looming on our renovation to-do list :

baseboards on the first floor

laundry room counter, sink and floors

upstairs bathrooms

second half of the windows - we already replaced the first half.

We're slowly working our way through that list, with a separate financing source, so these projects are not affected by the shopping ban.

However, the first rule of home ownership will undoubtedly continue to function: Things break. As always, there will be small tasks popping up here and there: painting, replacing door knobs, replacing light fixtures, installing new shelves.

I give myself permission to tackle any home improvement project but only after a three-month decision-making time allowance for considering all my options.

Art Projects and DIY.

Yes. I give my creative impulses free reign with two important stipulations: I may buy new supplies only when 1) I have checked my inventories to be sure I don't already own what I need and 2) I commit to starting the project that same day. No more abandoned Michaels bags full of good intentions.

Sports Gear.

I'm thinking about buying a new pair of skis for next season. My current K2s have been kicking around for at least fifteen years, and bombed around Stevens Pass on easily 300 different days. They have served me well but the time has come for them to move on.

And possibly a pair of roller skates. Watch Sharp Objects. You'll understand why.

Both purchases are permitted, as long as I shop carefully and buy exactly what I need.

Gifts for Others.

Fully permitted as long as I stay within my budgets.

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What I'm not allowed to shop for:

Books and Magazines.Library only.

Notebooks. My weakness.

Electronics and Small Appliances. No new phone until my old one dies; and I promise to replace with an older model. And I think I might want a food processor but I'm going to make myself wait until the shopping ban is over. If I am sure I want it after a year has passed, I'll buy it.

Lazy meals. Skip the processed foods, fast-food drive-through, and unnecessary beverage runs.

Organizers. Just no. I can improvise with what I've already got.

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My shopping ban will help me make a big step in the right direction of eliminating clutter and making more mindful decisions about how I spend my dollars.  But I'm serving up specific challenges to myself in those areas too.

Tomorrow I'll describe my decluttering goals.

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Read more about my journey to mindful consumption:

Reading Inspiration

My Shopping Ban Rules

My Decluttering Rules

The First Test

Sometimes It's Okay To Hold On

Setting Myself Free

Armed And Dangerous

A Decluttering Update: Family Photos

A Shopping Ban Update: Three Months In

Keepers

News Trend My Decluttering Rules|Actual

So a few years back, my minimalist guru, Cait Flanders, set out a three-point plan for reining in her debit cards, ratcheting back her possessions, and redesigning her budgeting tools to make them work better for her life.

Her memoir, The Year Of Less, tells the story of  what happened next and I highly recommend this enjoyable and insightful read.

In fact, I liked the book so much that I am putting together my own year-long trifecta of shopping less, sorting through, and saving more of my money.

Yesterday, I laid out my shopping ban rules. As I mentioned, I like to buy new things as much as the next person, but over-shopping is not a problem Crate

Now, with my shopping plan sorted, I'm ready to take on decluttering.

^ My gigantic antique pine cupboard is currently resting on its side in the garage, and I'm experimenting with this DIY slim shelf in its place. I cannot get enough of this new light and airy look.

candlesticks | Crate & Barrel

painting |Ann Arbor Street Art Fair circa 1974

coffee cups | Crate & Barrel

chair | IKEA

Let's get one thing straight.

I love to declutter.

Love. Yes, love. That is not too strong a word to describe the swell of emotion I feel during a midnight sort-and-stash session in which I end up surrounded by a sea of paper grocery bags full of giveaways, and a counter/cupboard/shelf spaces that feels refreshed and ready to breathe.

I declutter regularly, whenever the whim strikes me, and I'm not ashamed to say that a special, secret  joy sneaks over me when I notice that a desktop or a drawer has been let go, and realize that I'll have a new mess to clean.

My closet right now is a bit out of sorts, and I'm waiting for a nice rainy day to lock myself into my bedroom and give it a good go.

I feel ridiculously warm and cozy inside just thinking of the transformation that will transpire.

^ In the afternoon sun, tiny rainbows sparkle across this wall near my back door, born from a pair of prisms that hang there. My first instinct was to leave the wall completely blank so the rainbows fully capture my attention. But that was a bit sterile even for me, so the painting and the plant were invited to come back.

painting | me

chair | amazon

table | Saline Antique Market circa 1984

snake plant | Home Depot

basket | thrifted

And here's another true fact.

During the past few months at our house, we've had some work on done on our floors that has required me to temporarily move

every stick of furniture,

every item on the walls,

every single possession,

out of every room of my house. Upstairs and down.

And as my topsy turvy house has slowly returned to normal, I pretended that I was moving into a new house. Rather than just shoving everything back to its familiar place,

every stick of furniture,

every item on the walls,

every single possession,

in every room of my house,

was considered anew. What I found was that I did not want to put everything back. I wanted less in my house - less furniture, less art, less stuff - and so I simply put back only what I wanted.

^ In reassembling my family room, in order to let the brick and wood details really shine, I stripped all the color out of the room, save black, grey, white, and natural materials. After a few weeks of happy monochromatic living, I decided to get a little crazy and invite back a few tiny splashes of yellow.

dried flowers | Etsy

ceramic vase | thrifted

pewter lamp | Country Village circa 1986

candles | mostly Target

bookshelf | Standy's Furniture Warehouse circa 1995

wooden box | my mom

petrified wood bookend | my father-in-law

books | mostly thrifted

This was a really fun project. And a fantastic way to make my house feel fresh and alive and ready for a new season of life.

But here is the problem:

My house looks great. But my garage is a disaster zone.

Because remember all those things that I decided not to bring back into the house?

Yeah. They are all jammed into the garage.

Along with a fairly hefty heap of things that had already been sent out of the house.

There's a lot of stuff out there, not jumbled in giant piles like a scene out of Hoarders, but neatly stacked and sorted and arranged in such a way that almost fools my eye into thinking the mess is not so bad.

But it is. It is a really bad mess.

^ For a long time, this painting sat alone on my family room mantle. Truth be told, I really like it as a stark solo arrangement. But during one of the many moments that I was shuffling things around in this room, I set the bird and the lamp - two fragile and cherished possessions - up on the mantle to protect them. And I found the trio to be a happy testimony to the mothers in my life.

painting | me

ceramic bird | my mom

teak hurricane candle | my mother-in-law

logs | Abercrombie & Fitch display materials circa 2015

twinkle lights | Target

sheepskins | IKEA

So here's how my year-long decluttering plan is shaping up.

1. Declutter specific areas in the house that need help now:

My closet

Cabinets under my bathroom sinks

Dresser full of kid clothes waiting for my grandchildren to show up.

A few kitchen cupboards.

The LEGO closet playroom under the stairs.

2. Continue routine decluttering wherever and whenever my whimsies dictate.

3. Get that garage cleaned up. Within a year. No excuses.

^ These new desks for our office caught my eye with a sleek profile and a sturdy bamboo work surface. But my favorite feature is that each has three slim drawers, perfect for catching stray pens, important bills, and my coveted array of cute postage stamps. I love that my desk top is now a sleek and streamlined monument to outdated technology.

painting | my second-born

desk | IKEA

computer | I can't even

Now I have no illusions. This garage project is going to be beastly difficult, and involve every member of the family because we've all got stuff stashed out there. And there are some deeply emotional items to be dealt with - how about my father-in-law's lifetime collection of slides, home movies, and photographic equipment, or his 100+ year collection of National Geographic magazines stored in a custom built cupboard?

I honestly do not know how we are going to get through this enormous and complex project.

^ My husband's college filing cabinet has been taking up valuable space in our front hall closet for decades, and I finally decided I'd had enough of that nonsense. I informed my better half that we were in a do-or-die mode - either the cabinet moves into the office where we can actually put it to use, or out it would go. Lucky for him, the ancient metal beast is in immaculate condition and its color matches almost exactly to the wall. He blends in beautifully, and I invited him to stay.

paper tiger | online circa 2012

photography | me

frames | IKEA

painting | me

filing cabinet | Sears circa 1974

wire baskets | Target

But, over the next year, that is exactly what we shall find out.

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Read more about my journey to mindful consumption:

Reading Inspiration

My Shopping Ban Rules

My Decluttering Rules

The First Test

Sometimes It's Okay To Hold On

Setting Myself Free

Armed And Dangerous

A Decluttering Update: Family Photos

A Shopping Ban Update: Three Months In

Keepers